Yes. I offer online couples and relationship counselling throughout Norway, so you can work with me from Bergen, Stavanger, Trondheim, Tromsø, smaller communities, or wherever you happen to be based. I also offer in-person sessions in Oslo.

No problem—I offer relationship counselling online, so partners can join the same session from different locations or countries.

Long-distance relationships can also bring their own questions around connection, communication, time zones, visits, intimacy, uncertainty, future plans, migration, and creating a shared sense of home while living apart. We can make space for those experiences and shape the work around what your relationship needs at this point.

Yes. Couples in Oslo can meet with me in person, online, or use a mix of both depending on what works best for your schedules and circumstances. Couples elsewhere in Norway can meet with me online. I also work with couples in long distance relationships and/or couples who may live separately.

Recurring conflict often carries more information than the surface topic alone. We can slow the pattern down together and become curious about what each person is protecting, longing for, or trying to communicate, and what support or conditions might help the conversation unfold differently.

That is a very common relationship pattern. We can explore what closeness and space mean to each of you, what gets activated when those needs collide, and how the relationship might make more room for both connection and autonomy.

That is welcome here. I work with LGBTQIA+, polyamorous, consensually non-monogamous, kink/BDSM, intercultural, neurodivergent, and other relationships that may not fit conventional expectations. We can begin with the relationship you actually have and what matters within it.

You are welcome to come even if you are unsure whether you want to stay together.

Sometimes relationship counselling is a place to explore whether and how a relationship can continue. Sometimes it is a place to understand what has changed, what each person needs, and what possibilities are available from here.

We can make room for uncertainty without rushing toward a decision. The work can help each person speak more honestly, understand the relationship more clearly, and consider what kind of path feels most aligned with their values and needs.

If separation or divorce becomes the direction you choose, counselling can also support a more thoughtful transition, including communication, grief, boundaries, care, and whatever shared responsibilities or connections remain.

That’s completely welcome. All of my sessions are offered in English, and I work with many international and intercultural couples who use English as a shared language, even when it is not either person’s first language.

That uncertainty can be an important place to begin.

You do not need to arrive with a shared decision already made. We can slow things down, explore what each person is experiencing, understand what is keeping you connected, what is painful or unsustainable, and what each of you would need in order to move forward with greater clarity.

The aim is to create enough space for an honest decision to emerge, rather than forcing the relationship toward staying together or separating.

I have a wide range of personal and professional experience working with a vast array of different intersecting cultural identities and expressions. I have worked with people of all different racial and ethnic backgrounds, religions, ages/generations, socioeconomic statuses, disabilities, neurotypes, sexualities, gender identities, relationship orientations, national origins, and political views. I’m someone who is comfortable holding lots of space for nuance, complexity, and polarity. Everything and everyone is welcome. Nothing is too taboo or off limits and you will not be pathologized.

I have extensive experience working with the following communities/cultural contexts:

-LGBTQIA+

-Polyamorous, non-monogamous, open relationships

-Kink and BDSM, highly taboo and stigmatized sexual identities/desires

-Sex workers

-Neurodivergence

-Chronic illness and disability

-1st and 2nd gen immigrants, third culture kids, expats, internationals

-Multiple intersecting marginalized identities

You do not need to wait for a relationship to be in crisis. Counselling can be useful when there is distance, uncertainty, a recurring pattern, a major transition, or simply a wish to understand one another more deeply and tend the relationship with more intention.

My role is to understand the relationship and each person’s experience as fully as possible.

I am interested in what is happening between you, what each person is carrying, what each of you needs, and what conditions might help the relationship feel more supported. That means making room for different perspectives, even when they are in tension with one another.

I may sometimes slow something down, name a pattern, or invite one person to consider how something is landing for the other. The intention is to support greater understanding and choice for everyone involved.

My work is at its core relational, and I encourage ongoing feedback and sharing about how all partners are feeling throughout the process. If something isn’t feeling right, you are encouaged to speak up and we work through it together so everyone feels respected and supported.

It can be hard to try again after a previous experience felt disappointing, especially if one or both of you felt misunderstood, blamed, or as though the counsellor had taken sides.

You are welcome to bring that experience into our work. It can help me understand what did and did not feel supportive before, and what you each need in order to feel more comfortable this time.

I adapt my approach to the people and relationship in front of me. Part of the work is getting to know how each of you experiences conflict, connection, care, communication, and support, and shaping the process around what feels useful for your relationship now.